A man comes in complaining of his son being bullied at school. He plans to beat up the bully, beat up the bully’s father and beat up the teacher for not helping his son out.
I asked him what he was in fear of. It turns out that he was bullied in childhood by his father, his teachers and fellow students. In my world, this is simply background and I want to know where he bullies his son. The man naturally denied bullying his son, because he made a vow that he would “never” do that to anyone. Yet he repeats everything that was done to him, to his son.
I then asked the son “how are you a bully?” And he quickly admitted without resistance that he is an intellectual bully. He terrorizes anyone that doesn’t have a Mensa level IQ. That would include his mother, his sister, his father, his teachers, and fellow students.
For the rest of the session we worked on the son embracing the bully in himself, by helping him heal his “self-loathing” wound. When he returned to school the following day, no one bullied him, and he bullied no one. Our next mission was to work on the father to help him heal his self-loathing wound.
