Vladimir Kanizaj

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Leslie S. Booking Agent says…

For all of my life I have tried to control and manage myself, my life, and the people around me. It was making me quietly crazy inside. I was living in misery and tumult and had come to view my life as “normal” (as indeed it was–for me.) Vladimir has helped me to come out …

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Equanimous

Equanimous:  a state of emotional and spiritual stability or composure arising from a deep awareness and embracing of the present moment. Back to FAQ’s

Joy

We are born in a state of pure joy. It is our birthright. I would consider joy to be like the roots of a tree. I would consider happiness to be like the branches of the tree. Joy does not come from outside of ourselves because it is what we already are – pure joy. …

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Man wants to ‘blow his head clean off’ with 357 Magnum

A man came to see me after reconsidering committing suicide.  He had purchased a 357 Magnum, sat in his vehicle in an industrial parking lot, fully prepared to “blow his head clean off.” He couldn’t understand why he wanted to do this when he didn’t have any issues. Within moments he expressed that his wife …

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Man angry over wife withholding intimate feelings

The client tells me he is angry that his wife is not intimate enough with him and, by that, he means that she doesn’t divulge very much of her personal feelings to him. It may be true that she is hiding her personal feelings from him however, the only thing we need to look at …

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Mom thinks daughter dresses/acts like a ‘whore’

A lady client comes in with her 14-year-old daughter and promptly accuses her of being a slut and a whore, because of the way she dresses, and the way she acts.  After only a couple of inquiries everyone becomes aware that the daughter simply dresses the way most 14-year-old girls dress, and she has never …

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Son Bullied At School

A man comes in complaining of his son being bullied at school.  He plans to beat up the bully, beat up the bully’s father and beat up the teacher for not helping his son out.  I asked him what he was in fear of.  It turns out that he was bullied in childhood by his …

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Mike L. says…

Dear Vladimir, I can’t tell you how many times I have sat in front of my computer and not been able to find the words to adequately describe what our relationship has meant to me. I have now realized that the reason for this “writer’s block” is quite simple… WORDS CAN’T DESCRIBE what our relationship …

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Lori says…

HEALING THE DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL Relationship issues, financial issues, addictions, sexual abuse and other trauma; somehow we have convinced ourselves that these are unrelated. We seek assistance and guidance from people who hold themselves out to be ‘experts’ in the field, whether they be therapists, psychics, promoters of ancient rituals or others, and …

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K. Lloyd says…

There are many levels of self discovery, and I have done many levels throughout my life. I commend myself for the IMMENSE COURAGE it took to know myself on a deeper, non superficial level. To go to the deepest parts of  my heart’s yearning, to hear my inner voice, and want more peace and love …

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